Why?

Why do we hold ourselves back from showing who we really are?

It’s super normal to have moments of being shy, but when you’re in a relationship be it family, partner or friend, why not be in it 100%.

Think about it. If you’re busy making sure the other person is happy and comfortable, are you giving yourself the same?

None of us are perfect, we will all make mistakes along the way. We’ll find ourselves taking better care of another over ourselves, often. Then we get tired and might resent our actions or worse, we might resent the person we were taking care of.

Give yourself the time, as often as possible, to know who you are: who you want to be and show the world exactly who this is by your actions of taking care of yourself first and then taking care of others as you see fit.

This is being true to you, showing your authentic self and loving yourself enough so you can actually take better care of others.

Finding out who you really are can be a challenge. Especially if you’ve spent most of your life putting others first. Look within your heart, get some coaching and start living your true life.